On a friend's suggestion, I started of writing about a very casual discussion of the reader-writer's favorite "Difference in a man's and a woman's attitude", but surfing d web for some useful extracts and annotations to strengthen my views, I came across a very raw and quite a hot topic of elaboration...The male female psychological differences..
Well I think the clique which appears here should be broken off soon, so here's d soother.. Studies and research say that men and women are same and gender biasing as a benchmark for difference in psychology between the two sexes, is just another hyper exaggerated myth like others in the ' Men vs Women' civilization..
According to it, men and women show similar traits when issues like leadership, aggressiveness and cognitive abilities are concerned...The further detailing of characters den , I guess are more a work of individual personalities den, so characterizing them into 'guys attitude' and 'girls nature' is of no accord..
The researchers( Dr. Janet Hyde and her team), further suggest that this nature generates gender differentiation and creates a feeling of assumed prejudice.
In her research, she found out that the difference visible in the behavior of a man and woman were more or less restricted to men being more physically aggressive than women, being more into a less committed relationship and having a higher sense of self-esteem when matters of family are concerned. Other than these men and women were found to react similarly and having almost the same perspective.
To a large extend, I comply to it..Now with the narrowing of the gap btw the two species, where they are increasingly accepting the role of each other in society and at homes, differences between them is for sure getting limited. Now a woman is expected to be as practical and logical in handling matters of her life as a man
used to be ,some decades ago..similarly a man is getting more and more involved in family care and hence emotionally more reliable. A woman is as good a leader as a man and so the dominance that circulated largely over d male shoulders, is soon fading away. Man and woman are gelling well their responsibilities and nature and making it more of a person to person variation, than the general 'man to woman' variation.
The theory is right now hard to digest.. If dis is accepted den what will happen to our great women defense..."tum sab ladke ek jaise hi hote ho" and the men one liner.."yeh ladkiyan bhi naa"...Not only this I guess half of d world's love issues would be settled.. half of the marriage counselors would be out of job and the great all time debate of 'men are from mars women from venus' will go deep down...It would be quite early to form any conclusion but ya dis really deserves some great piece of mind moulding even after being accepted, because that is the view with which populations have grown old.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
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